This is a great post by one of my favorite bloggers “teecee” and really spoke to my heart. Enjoy…
The Ideal Friend!
Posted on March 20, 2012 by teeceecounsel
If I had a friend that would be there for me, just when I wanted, that would smile, precisely when I need a smile, that would hug me, the very moment I’ll seek a hug and would speak a word where all that matters is a word, Would I be happier?
If I had a friend that spurs me up to get things done, that offers a hand to ease the stress, that generates ideas to make things swift and that enlightens me on priorities, Would I be more productive?
If I had a friend that who would ensure that I eat the best meals, who would insist that I wear the best cloths, who would verify that I make the best choice and who would ascertain that I strike the best deals, Would I be more fulfilled?
If I had a friend that would show me what counts, that would teach me what matters, that would expose me to the vital and that would involve me in the crucial, Would I be more focused?
If I had a friend that would introduce me to great personalities, that would position me in spheres of influence, that would tell me about decision making and that would spend time with me on leadership issues, Would I be more relevant?
If I had a friend that would dance with me anytime I wanted, plead my case whenever I need representation, rescue me from tight situations and say the words that set me right wherever I’ve veered of track, would I be perfect?
I prefer to be exciting than to be excited, to help than to be helped, to smile than to be smiled at… the list is endless but I’m happier when I’m the reason that change came, I feel more productive when I inspire the motivation that gets things done, I’m more fulfiled when others are happy because of me, I am more focused when my action meets a need rather than just fulfilling an obligation, I consider relevance as having a worthy contribution and not just occupying a position or associating with the leadership and I’m perfect when I’m myself; expressing my thoughts, ideas and concepts without prejudice, compulsion or comparism. I’m unique and free. I better be that friend!
-Nnamonu Tochukwu. Teeceecounsel.
Stop by teecee’s post and leave her a comment http://teeceecounsel.wordpress.com/2012/03/20/the-ideal-friend/
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WordPress Blogging … changes I see
Posted in Whatever, tagged 2012, ann marquette, Blog, blog changes, comment, Login, Tools, WordPress on March 19, 2012| 13 Comments »
Most of the blogs I have been following for some time now, when I’ve read and commented on the post, I did not have to “login” but now I do for all of them.
Also, it seems that even previously approved comment authors show “waiting for moderation.” Maybe I missed an update from WordPress awhile back where they did some upgrade and created new defaults for all or most of us, which means we have to change them.
You may remember I previously posted about not getting response from WP asking about these issues. I sent the request to WP support on March 1st. I finally got a reply to my questions as follows:
My comment: Over the last few months I notice…more and more and more… the following:
The bloggers I am subscribed to, when I try to leave a comment it forces me to “log in” when I never had to before and many bloggers I still don’t have to login.
WP reply: It’s up to a blog owner whether they require users to log in to comment or not. It’s also a setting that can be changed at any time. For instance, on a blog where you previously didn’t need to log in, if the owner changes the setting then you’ll need to log in next time you comment.
My other comment: Regarding approvals on both sides, I notice that some blogs I am subscribed to, when I comment the message “waiting for moderation” shows up, when that would not happen previously since I had been commenting before. And a few of the subscribers to me, now when they leave a comment I get the message I have to APPROVE their comment first.
WP reply: Again, blog owners can change this setting if they want to moderate the comments that come in.
It looks like you have comments open, but you do require people to have a previously approved comment before they can comment the first time.
I did write back that although my settings are ok, as before, it is strange I would have to approve someone who had previously commented. I also asked her why I am having to login to reply to someone who has commented on my post, when I did not have to do that before; and it only started recently.
Am I imagining things, am I going crazy? 🙂 Ok, I know I am already crazy, but come on now!!!
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